If you want it to last longer without adding volume, layer it over a lotion first.
A scented body lotion base can make the floral feel more plush. If you already own a soft, non greasy layer, use it on pulse points before fragrance. If you need a romantic friendly option, this KibbeTypes guide to romantic glow with cherry blossom body lotion explains what to look for in finish and absorption.
Buying notes and when to skip it
For note clarity, lean on the brand description rather than crowd sourced pyramids. Estée Lauder describes Pleasures as a clean, sparkling floral with lilies, white peonies, and jasmine, brightened by baie rose on its official Pleasures Eau de Parfum page.
Skip it if you dislike classic floral profiles, or if white flowers trigger headaches for you. In that case, a softer musk or a sheer skin scent will usually feel easier to wear.
If you are deciding between concentrations, eau de parfum is typically richer than eau de toilette, so you can use fewer sprays and still get presence. A Vogue guide to eau de parfum vs eau de toilette is a helpful refresher when you want a lighter or stronger effect.
Store your bottle away from heat and direct light, and treat it like a silk blouse: gentle handling keeps it true.
When you want a close, floral signature that supports romantic softness, Estée Lauder Pleasures perfume is at its best kept intimate and lightly layered.